Man behavior in dating
They don’t value the ‘WE’ in the relationship, only the ‘ME’.
If you don’t leave early on, you will be emotionally manipulated and made to feel like everything’s your fault.
The dynamic may or may not move into a serious relationship, but they are not trying to gather other options or back up plans in case it doesn’t. Americans (both men and women) have been socialized to play games, to act unavailable, to wait a particular amount of time before texting back…
The consequence of this is a lack of understanding of women, a lack of comfort and often, a lack of respect. There is a courtesy, consideration, chivalry and thoughtfulness in how they act, behave and engage with others.In America, sexual education is not taught until one hits their teens, if they are taught at all. It’s no surprise that American men are left to their own devices, subconsciously learning about sex through porn and the media. The latest law passed in France where excessively skinny models need to prove their health is a testament to that.But when you’re surrounded by American media, filled with Barbie dolls, waif skinny models and Baywatch breasts, the idea of what ‘beauty’ is becomes skewed. European men have a quiet confidence, a demeanor that doesn’t need to scream out loud to prove themselves. The dating culture involves trying out many different options at the same time.In fact, you may be experiencing attractions of deprivation, where you try to recreate the issues from childhood in your romantic partners. In extreme cases, it’s easy to identify the culprit. When you’re wearing sunglasses, they look at their reflection, not at you.
They are also raised with strong family and community values, so there is a sense of responsibility and accountability for others, not just for the self.